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This can't be a secret or revelation, at most you might consider it as the same rough drafts as others. This has been a while since I had a little time not being busy with work and study and got a few moments to think about "LOVE". What does it mean? I have seen two young people madly passionate about each other and can't stand not being without each other for a minute and as time passed they became departed gradually even after they got married. I also have seen something opposite, two people got into an arranged marriage and have difficulties to get along at first but now they seem to me as puzzle pieces whenever I see them together. But why I started writting about these two extreme examples right after asking what is LOVE? To be frank I don't know but I imagine this word finds its definition somewhere between these two instances. At a corner where these dreamy motion pictures come true or even better. Let me try to take our imagination to that corner for a while, hoping that I can do it.
Consider your most important interview you have ever had, level of anxiety, stress, shaking legs and hands and all kinds of other symptoms you can imagine. For me, most of the time this combines with taking deep breathes over and over in order to calm myself down. For the first few dates or calls it is obviousely the process before it starts. For some uncontious reason you cannot hide your deep smile when you encounter your partner. These first few talks consist of most randomly subjects that you can ever imagine and surely you can find a reason to get distance from that person or get a sweet and short missing feeling on the way back home from your date or when you hang up the phone (This part gonna repeat in every turn so I am gonna call it Departure Sensation or DP). These are some blissful moments which is undeniably essence of this drama. Gradually conversations in this dream can transfrom into some formal/fancy stuff. There is gonna be discussion. Having strong and solid ideas on a specific issue and through the discussion your fortress of meaning and proofs gets a very tiny tiny crack or even not you got even stronger in your belief. ONE MUST BE FOOL IF TAKES THESE DISCUSSION SO SERIOUS THAT WOULD STOP THE RELATION, unless DP suggest you other wise. The whole idea of discussion is having a subject to converse over and getting familiar with feelings and trying to look at things from another stand point. One of the things beyond that first hyperenegetic period are these discussions and how two individual can find a common ground to have a healthy conversation without supressing or opressing one another. This dream can continue a little bit further when your relation gets a little older and you understood that life and all things around it,is your number one archenemy. You have passed ups and downs together, you got days with $10 in the account and you had days with $10000. You got happy days and you got days full of sorrow and through all these days you had sympathy and appreciation for each other. You both tried to be present for each other, taking care of each other and having empathy for each other. You both got the courage to step up and show appreciation for your partners' hard work, pain and perseverance. You rarely can find any words around this period that can describe what you have been through or can define your feelings towards each other. It seem to me that this dream will continue even after you lost your LOVE. Around those days that you got a few moments to pour yourself a drink and remembering all those years that you passionately spend your time with the one who admired you, criticized you and loved you.
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